Nathan Jacen October 2011 Like many months, October is a month full of Awareness', such as Dyslexia and Breast Cancer. It's also Pregnancy and Child Loss Awareness Month, which I know in some places, mentioning that you've had a miscarriage can get you into serious legal trouble, which is absolute horseshit. Too many people continue to suffer in silence, afraid or perhaps not knowing that there are resources to help them grieve--yes, even non-Christian and secular resources (which were very few or non-existent in some places; in general having these resources are relatively new). This October will mark the 12th year of the miscarriage of my son, Nathan Jacen. Since 2015, every October 15th I've been participating in the Wave of Light . I don't even know if it still happens anymore, but just in case someone out there is still lighting their candle at 7pm, so do I. I'm also not sure who started this day, as I discovered it through Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep ...